Should we be having multiple sex partners? (before marriage?) A deeper look at the Sacred Feminine
|Astarte *Oshun* in ancient times; H. Priestess of Sacred sexual union and arts|
When we are living in our bodies powerfully we can feel or sense those that we should or need to be initiating sexual intimacy with. What happens is when we listen to our "friends" or societies definition of what that looks like. We have to discern the reality that just because you feel a "heat" or sexual attraction to someone does not mean we need to engage them with our bodies. *still love me?!* Now that I've dropped the bomb on the science of our bodies and how we hold onto male DNA for a period of time, we also need to look at the spiritual aspects of this. AS natural receivers, containers for energy we have to be conscious about WHO we allow to lay within us. His energy is being energized by our sexual desire and union. During this energetic exchange we are creating a heat and friction that stamps not only him but us as well. Psychically we are creating a portal with each thrust and each individual we have sex with and if we create too many, how can we be focused on just one? Eventually what happens is that we pull the one we are engaging with into those portals, and loose the essence of the union. If you've ever had an experience where you've been with one man, and laid with another and your man "senses a change or an energy in you" that was not present before, well that is what that is! He senses your portal has been tampered with the energy he CREATED with you as been tainted. It's the same thing when you've laid with men or multiple men before him, he begins to sense the presence of others and your lack of being PRESENT when he's making love to you. This for many men causes conflict, especially those men who are intuitively sensitive!!!
Now I am not saying that this is not a twisted notion. It IS. Again, do not think I am ignoring the problematic perpetuation and hypocrisy of many men in the world, who feel as though it's "okay" for them to lay with as many woman as they want and the woman he falls in love with has to either be a virgin or damn near one. It's not okay either. HOWEVER, you as a woman have the POWER to control whom and what enters your sacred, and it's not realistic! But because YOU are Gaia herself and remember YOU have the power of creation, I am focusing on us!! Preserve, respect, uphold and honor that power, so that when you meet the one you desire to truly be with, he can have all of you instead of just pieces of you!
Lastly, let's keep in mind that if one seeks either a sacred union, marriage or long term commitment the rules of engagement are the same! We want clarity when sharing our souls with another.